right or wrong?

I know i havent been updating blog as
much as i did before.
Its just that there is nothing happening
in my life except feeding monkey behind KDE
*Ohh ! when i got down the car a monkey
came behind me and pull my shirt and
hang on to it lightly for the bread i was holding xD*

And there was wild boar which was so freaking
cute ! And when i was sitting at a table there
monkeys came and sit next to me, ofcourse
for the bread but it allowed me to touch them.
Anyways, why not we talk about something
different today instead of my gay life.

Today topic : Right or Wrong ?

When we were kids at about the age we start
to learn how to walk, scream, cry, jump.
Our parents starts to teach us basic manners
like hi or bye or maybe giving goodbye flying kisses.
Usually at the age of 4, parents sends us off to kindergarten,
our 1st step of growing up.

I remember whenever i am home from school,
finished with homeworks or anything,
my mum would always sit with my brother and i,
and start teaching us the basic do's and dont's,
and ofcourse rights and wrong.

Basic stuffs like
- Dont talk to strangers
- Never steal anyone's stuffs, not even food
- Dont bully ppl
And the list goes on.

Now lets forget all these MUST do's and dont's.
Because i realized something that i doubt
hardly anyone would.

Is SMOKING right or wrong?
Obviously majority of ppl would say wrong.
I am sure you guys know that when there is
a positive, there is a negative in it as well.
NOTHING is perfect.

Back to that question, is smoking right or wrong?
Positive : It calms ppl down, and de-stress them and
make them able to think and concentrate.
Negative : It harms ppl health deeply and the
smell is really bad for non smokers.

Is watching porn right or wrong?
Positive : Satisfies ppl sexual needs, save someone
from getting rape or turning into a rapist
and ofcouse, save ur money instead of calling
a prostitute and get STDs or AIDS.
Negative : It is stereotyped as an act of desperate
horny ppl which also makes them 'cheap' and disgusting.

Is drinking alcohol right or wrong?
Positive : Alcohol is a main drink for social gatherings,
it brings ppl together. It is also said beer reduces body heat.
Negative : When one drinks too much and get drunk,
shit happens. Or maybe turn into an alcoholic.

Is clubbing right or wrong?
Positive : Fun for out-going ppl and helps
ppl forget their worries and just enjoy themselves.
Negative : Because of dressing and their acts in clubs,
whoever goes to club is stereotyped as 'cheap' and 'slut'.
Not careful you can be pick pocket anytime or
maybe, waking up next to a stranger.

Is drug right or wrong?
K lah, this is a stupid question. Its obviously wrong.
All it does is just makes ppl high and happy, sit
like an idiot all by urself and u can just
laugh for no reason and
if you cant control u turn into an addict and
the world becomes a hell hole for u.

Is sex right or wrong?
Positive : Scientifically proven that too little sex is bad
for teenage attitudes. Dont believe can read here.
*i am not saying teenage should have sex underage*
And its a stress release action.
Negative : No condom = pregnancy.

And the list goes on and on and on.
So now are you thinking to urself
'just what the heck is really right or wrong?'

I'll tell u the answer with a quote :)

There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.
- Hamlet, William Shakespeare.

Everyone's thinking and point of views are always
different. There is no point in arguing who
is right or wrong. Whatever i wrote above,
there maybe ppl who disagree to it but it doesnt
matter. I am seeing it from MY point of view.
I am not right neither am i wrong.
But its just YOUR thinking that makes it so ;)

Watch your thoughts;
they become words.

Watch your words;
they become actions.

Watch your actions;
they become habits.

Watch your habits;
they become character.

Watch your character;
it becomes your destiny.

Changing your thinking, changes ur life.
I did, thats how i became who i am.
Wiser and happier.
Friends whom i havent talked to in a
long time may say i've changed.
I didnt, i just grew up, they should try that someday.

Sit back and relax, have some time
to yourself. Think about what you really want,
who you wanna be and whats good for you.
We only got one life, best not to screw with it :)
Afterall there is no turning back to whatever
we've done each sec.

Smile and love urself today.
Yours truly , Mabel :)
ps : i love you readers too :D